Staying Clean – How to have sex without the hassles of STDs

Well boys and girls, today we’re gonna talk about condoms, dental dams and STDs! Yay! Doesn’t sound like much fun does it? But I can assure you that not only can safe sex be quite fun, but let’s face it; it’s a helluva lot more fun than an STD ain’t it??

 

First things first; unprotected sex is dangerous no matter how well you think you may know someone or how hot and bothered you may be and condoms are an absolute necessity these days, so the sooner you realize this and stop your groaning about it, the sooner you can learn to incorporate it effortlessly into your foreplay! 

Condom makers have been doing their part to make safe sex as easy as can be by creating condoms that are “ribbed for you pleasure” to condoms that fit even the—ahem—huskier boys. Still goin’ soft even with all these great condom choices? Not if you use some of these tips:

 

Keep ‘em handy: Most of the time what makes you go limp when it’s time to slip on the condom is the interruption—not the condom itself! Tacky or presumptuous as you may think it is; keeping condoms close by will cut down the fumbling time which can be a buzz kill, so keep ‘em next to the bed, next to the tub, in the cookie jar and anywhere else you may play! (Keeping a couple in the car ain’t a bad idea either)

 

Put ‘Em In Your Mouth: This is always my favorite advice for anything tasty. *wink*  Since oral sex needs to be practiced safely too; the creation of flavored condoms that really are quite yummy make it far easier to enjoy some safe oral whether you’re going down on him or her. Cut a flavored condom open and use it when going down on her or slip one on him and lick it like it’s the tastiest lollypop around and they won’t complain. (Also a great idea for those a little shy or squeamish about oral to begin with)

 

Hand It To Them: If you find the actual act of putting a condom on to be a joy kill then passing the buck to your mate may do the trick. It only takes less than a second to place the condom on the head and with a little practice; doing it with one hand leaves the other free to continue stroking away at the shaft or giving the balls a little squeeze while your partner slides the condom down. I recommend some sultry eye contact as you do this to keep the connection intense and as über-sexy.

 

Lip Action: Once you’ve mastered the one handed tip above you may want to give your hands a break and leave all the work to your lips! Place the condom over the head and roll it down just a tad. Get the eyes focused on your man, place your hands behind your back and your lips over the condom and begin to slide your lips downward with enough pressure to take the condom down with you as far as you can go. You can always cheat and use a hand if your mouth isn’t quite strong enough, but it’s the lips on cock contact that make this tip the hottest one of all!

 

Play Safe!

 

 by Adrie Santos 

 

Hey guys – 5 top tips to help you last longer

Having to conjure up images of your mom to stop you from blowing your load too soon in bed? Well torture yourself no more! These tasty tips on how to last longer no matter how hot your partner will have you givin’ it to her all night long!

First things first; we gotta figure out if you are just a little eager or are actually a premature ejaculator. It’s natural to want to last a long time in bed and to feel inadequate when you don’t quite make your personal quota, but by putting the extra pressure on yourself, you are actually making things worse.A premature ejaculator is defined as a man who ejaculates sooner than he or his partner wish during the majority of sexual encounters. Because there is no real standard as to when a guy should blow his load, the only way for a doctor to really assess the problem is to go over a series of questions about your medical history and your upbringing.Before you put yourself at the mercy of your doc, you may want to consider the following tips – most of which will be recommended by your doctor long before he sends you the Viagra route.

Tip 1: Masturbate. Masturbate. Then masturbate some more! The more you do it, the more your body becomes accustomed to stimulation. Over time, this will make it easier to last longer. This is also great because it gives you a chance (or two!) to get to know your body better.

Tip 2: The Stop & Start Method. I so affectionately refer to this as ‘The Cock Tease’ – involves bringing yourself close to cumming and then stopping the stimulation and then doing it all over again (hence the ‘cock tease’). You can do this to yourself or get your partner to help you out. A couple of weeks of this and you should start to see a difference in your stamina.

Tip 3: Wear a condom. You should be doing this anyway you bad boy, but if you’re not, then it’s time to start. We’ve all heard the constant griping and bitching that condoms take away from the sex. Well in this case it’s a good thing. Skip the super-thin kind and opt for the heavy duty variety to help decrease sensation. If you can find a brand that fits on the smaller side of the spectrum, it can almost act as a makeshift cock ring and limit the leakage of blood from your erection and help keep you hard longer.

Tip 4: Surprise – a Cock Ring! As mentioned in the last tip, a cock ring wraps around the base of the penis and keeps you hard by almost trapping the blood in your erection to keep you hard longer. Check out sex shops and online sex toy distributors for all kinds of cool cock rings.

Tip 5: Just Breathe. This may sound super cheesy and yogi-esque, but being aware of your breathing is simple and effective. When you’re doin’ the do and the excitement level starts to build, focus on slowing your breathing down. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth all nice and easy. This will keep the excitement at bay and give you something else to concentrate on.And a final thought before you run off in search of condoms and cock rings – stop beating yourself up about this! Women are a lot more understanding about this sort of thing than you may think. While you’re busy feeling bad for cutting things short, we’re secretly flattered that we were able to push you over the edge so quickly.

So relax already!

by Adrie Santos 

Lust into new sex territory with these advanced anal sex moves

Ready to take it to the next level in your anal play and break one of the biggest taboos out there? These tips will help you make the most of anal sex once you’re ready to kick it up a notch and graduate from a finger to a penis!

If you’re reading this article, chances are that you are no stranger to anal play (if you’d like to learn some basics, try this story) and have learned to enjoy the feeling of a toy, tongue or finger in your ass. Being comfortable with anal stimulation or even the mere idea of it is a good start because when it comes to the anus, there is no room for being uptight! Anal sex is still considered somewhat taboo and has the stigma of being uncomfortable, dirty and painful, but handled properly; it can be extremely pleasurable, erotic and safe. Follow these guidelines for making your bum-sex experience as hot as it should be.

As important as an open and mind and willing partner is lube-and lots of it! Unlike the vagina, the anus isn’t going to become juicy no matter how amazing the foreplay, and since we are dealing with a much smaller opening that doesn’t always cooperate the way a pussy might; you will have to stock up on the lube if you want to make penetration as smooth as possible. Your best bets are water-based lubricants since they are latex-safe and won’t compromise the effectiveness of condoms.

Speaking of condoms; it is highly recommended to use them when in engaging in anal sex because the risk of disease and infection is greater because of the delicate skin in this area. At risk of making you go limp; it’s important that you both understand that the possibility of tearing the delicate tissue in the rectum is what increases your chances of infection here. Also, because of the types of bacteria that live in this area; irritation is another possibility, so condom use is advised for hygienic reasons as well.

Assuming that you haven’t been put off by all that clinical mumbo-jumbo; once you’re all relaxed and lubed up, slipping a finger in to help get the sphincter ready is a good idea and will help get the lube in where it counts. When both of you are ready to proceed; begin slowly—very slowly! Taking deep breaths will help to relax and expand the opening, so it’s a good idea to synchronize the breaths with each light push of the penis. If either one of you is feeling any pain, chances are that you’re doing something wrong and should take it even slower.

A heads up for the person who has the pleasure of being on the receiving end; you may feel a pressure that is similar to what you feel when you’ve “gotta go”—this feeling is normal, so instead of clamming up in fear that you’re about to do somethin’ nasty, go against your urge and push out because it will actually help expand your opening and make it easier for you to take in his luscious cock!

Like any other new “activity”, it’ll take some getting used to and some practice till you both find your groove, so even once you’ve managed to pass base camp one in the Mount Everest of anal—don’t get over ambitious! Keep the movements slow and controlled until it comes more naturally before progressing to an all-out ass pounding.

To help make anal even more enjoyable, there are all kinds of anal-friendly positions to look forward to and experiment with aside from the typical doggie-style; which though the most common, is not necessarily the best choice for an anal-newbie.

The Missionary position is actually considered one of the best choices for the beginner because it allows you to fully relax your anus. Lying on your side is another great choice for the same reason. A great position to work towards is taking it while on top because you have the advantage of controlling the speed and depth and making all you want! This position though is NOT recommended for a beginner because it causes you to involuntarily tighten your muscle which makes penetration harder.

And finally; don’t play dirty—meaning: keep in mind the area that you’ve been playing in and try not to trek anything where it doesn’t belong! Avoid going from ass to mouth or vagina without a thorough washing to keep from spreading bacteria that could be harmful.

Following all of these steps is sure to guarantee a truly erotic anal session, so play nice and enjoy going where many others are still too chicken to go!

by Adrie Santos

The easy-start guide to anal sex – Priming Yourselves for Butt Play

We’ve all seen it, heard about and laughed at it; but Anal Eze isn’t sounding so funny now that you’re considering squeezing a dick into that tiny hole, huh? Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable if done right and to do it right, you’ll need a couple of things: an open mind and lube, lube and MORE lube!

The need for lube is obvious, but even with all the lube in the world; if you’re uncomfortable, filled with anxiety and convinced that what your doing is wrong or dirty; you just won’t be relaxed enough to do it properly. While the taboo is part of the allure of anal sex to begin with; you have to be willing to embrace it if you’re going to go ahead with it and enjoy it. Many people miss out on the pleasure of anal because of a first time experience gone wrong which is such a shame, so this article is here to help you get started on the right foot… well, more like on your knees…

Starting off with a penis is a bit ambitious for the newbie, so I recommend a little finger play first. The idea of anal sex alone may be enough to arouse some, but if not; relaxing your muscles with a little masturbation or foreplay is a good start. Once aroused; use a finger (yours or theirs) and begin circling the anus lightly to help yourself get used to being stimulated there. Once you’re aroused enough; get out the lube and enjoy the feeling of slathering it around your hole until you’re well greased and primed for action.

Slip the lubed finger in slowly and take the time to tease and enjoy each inch (or half an inch) and continue to insert it for as long as it feels good. Another trick is to push out as you would during a bowel movement because this will open the sphincter and allow you to take the finger in deeper. Of course, the same should be done once you have graduated to a dick!

(Tip: The feeling of a finger in your ass during oral sex is especially arousing and a great way to introduce anal play to anyone who is reluctant.)

Enjoying the finger in the bum but still apprehensive when you see the wall of flesh that is his penis coming at you? Try one of the many butt toys on the market. Anal toys are smaller than a penis and often times, bigger than a finger; offering a great plateau for those who want more than finger play but still aren’t ready for full-on anal sex. These toys range from butt plugs and probes to anal beads, so there is something for every taste and comfort level.

When you have learned to relax and enjoy the sensation of something inside your butt; the transition to a penis will be easy and incredibly erotic.

A few things to keep in mind: hygiene is important here since you’re dealing with very delicate skin, so keeping your finger nails clean and trimmed will avoid any unwanted and painful mishaps. Also, protection is key; so condom use is just as important here as it is with any other type of sex. And finally, remember: anal sex is NOT dirty or wrong!! If you feel that it is, than you’re not ready to try it!

Happy probing!
Tips for amazing anal:

1) Lots and lots of lube

2) Start small and work your way up

3) Keep things clean.

by Adrie Santos

Secrets to the ultimate hand job – Release the tension in your man

So, you’re sitting at work wondering how to give your guy a mind-blowing, lip-biting night of sexy fun plus make it all a fun surprize. If you want to give your guy a total pampering treat finished with a truly “happy ending”, try this massage and hand job technique.

First off, buy a bottle of good massage oil from your local sex shop, or sweet almond oil from a salon. In a pinch, baby oil does the trick.

Then, get your bed or couch ready with an extra sheet so you can massage without thinking about the oil messing things up.

When you’re in the mood and have about half an hour or more, get your guy to lie on his tummy on the sheet. Start with a slow massage around his shoulders using a little oil. Keep in mind the less oil you use, the more friction you get – most guys like a decent massage, so less is better (to start).

Work his back from the top to bottom, taking a new side trips to his arms and hands. Then, start with his legs, from the feet up to his butt. This is where the sensual part starts… flick your fingers inside his thighs and brush his balls with your fingertips. A light grazing is best so it seems like a mistake. Do it a few more times, and then work your hands up the back of his thighs to his butt. Massage his legs and rear, innocently rubbing your fingertips along his balls and upwards (as deeply as you feel comfortable doing) . A few drops of oil in the region will add to his suspicion this is more than just a massage.

By now, your guy is probably hard, so ask him to “flip”. Start at his chest and work his pecs and abdominals, keeping a firm gaze on him and his upper body. Work your way down his legs, again making the accidental graze against his cock or balls.

Once you’re ready, take the oil and drip some right on to his groin. Slowly rub the oils around and use your entire hand on his shaft and balls. Use your palm to stroke down, then sideways and up. Go slowly – remember, it’s not a gearshift!

As he gets harder, use two hands – one stroking his cock and the other either rubbing his abs or balls.

Here’s where the patience pays off – go slowly here, sensuously and enjoy his hardness in your hand. Stroke his entire length, working the base of his cock’s head if he needs more stimulation, or the base if he needs to settle down a bit. You can also hold the base firmly and use your closed hand on the rest. Read his face and see what he likes, or just ask “How’s this?’

You can also try a curve – as if your hand were traveling along a curve to give a tug to the left or right near the top of his cock (this is why some guys use their left or right hand when masturbating since each hand has a natural curve to it’s path).

I suggest lots of lube here since a slippery hand is the very best, and if you’re adventurous enough, massage his skin below his balls or all the way to his anus. In fact, some anal play while you work his penis might just send him over the edge.

Once he’s ready to cum, get into a strong rhythm with your stroke – as if he were pumping you hard during sex. To guys, a hand is just like a vagina so the same motions are what work best. A little dirty talk here sure doesn’t hurt either!

When he comes, remember it will either fly to the right or left, depending. Most guys cum on their left side because of the natural design of their equipment. Don’t point it up to his face, unless he’s into his own cum on his lips.

Once he shoots, handle his cock carefully since it will be really sensitive near the top. Guys love a nice, slow wind down. Take a few minutes to watch his cock go down, and have a small towel handy (or if you really want to reward your guy, bring in a warm wet towel!) and clean him off. Feeling like a porn star? Lick it from his body!

Since he’s already cum once, give him a while and then get him going again. You’ll find his second orgasm takes longer so he’ll be able to pump you long and hard.

Easy tips for an awesome handjob:

1) Tease him with little touches against his cock and balls

2) Work his penis slowly when stroking it, and use two hands.

3) Bask in the afterglow

by Blake Palmerston

Bringing Sex Toys Into Your Relationship – Easier (And Hotter) than you think!

With men supposedly being the more visually stimulated of the sexes; it surprises me that so many are uncomfortable with the idea of incorporating sex toys into their relationships.

Many men have reported finding the idea of their partners wanting or using a vibrator to be somewhat threatening or offensive to them and I can only guess after my own experience that it has to do with a jealousy or fear that she will enjoy the silicone dick more than yours and not need you anymore (picture big, burly guy yelling: “What the fuck do you need that for-isn’t my cock enough for you??” as horrified shoppers of the Sex Shack looked on!)

Nowadays, there are literally hundreds of toys on the market that are made specifically with couples in mind, so you don’t need to settle for the big, bad, realistic cock! But, while we’re talking about the cock-like toys, let me just ask you: would it really be so bad to watch your gal as she lays back, spreads her legs and teases her pussy with it for you? Still not feelin’ it? How about taking it in your hand (and no, it doesn’t make you gay) and sliding into her wet, waiting hole? Big, rubber cock’s lookin’ a lot less scary, ain’t it?

Now, let’s get back to toys that are couple friendly. The most popular are the vibrating cock rings which are pliable “rings” that have a vibrating bullet attached to them. You slide it down to the base of your penis and turn on the vibe. The idea is, that as you’re inside your partner, the vibrating bullet stimulates her clit and you at the same time-not a bad deal, huh?

My personal favorites are the remote-controlled strap-on vibes. Before you cringe with visions of having your ass invaded-I’m not talking about that kind of strap-on-though if that’s your thing; kudos to you! The kind I’m referring to are flat vibes that fit in her panties and some even come as vibrating panties. The hot thing about these are the discretion factor, meaning that she can wear them to a romantic dinner while you hold the remote and control every erotic buzz from across the table. You can make her cum during somewhere between the crab cakes and dessert without anyone being the wiser!

Finally there is the latest gadget which has taken the tech and sex world by storm: the iBuzz Two. This toy, that looks much like an iPod, has two vibrating bullets and two headphone jacks. It plugs into your music playing device of choice (iPod, MP3, etc) and vibrates to the beat of your tunes! All you have to do is agree on the music and one of the eleven vibration settings, then lay back and enjoy.

So keep an open mind and think: “mutual satisfaction” when choosing your toy and don’t forget that you can even turn your shopping excursion into foreplay with the right attitude. Toys can make your sex life even sexier if, you let them…

by Adrie Santos Photo: www.ronharris.com

Oral skills for guys – Three Basics To Get Her Off Right

Going down on a woman doesn’t require the complicated skill you may think. There are three simple points to keep in mind if you want to go down like a champ and give her the kind of oral that will have her singing your praises to her friends (yes, women do share that shit!)

First, you’ve got to let go of any hang-ups you may have about oral and the notion that it’s dirty down there. If you’re attracted to her enough to want to give it a go, how nasty can she be? Though, suggesting a shower or bath together before hand is a great idea that will further prime her for action anyway and its better than curling your lips in disgust when you get near it and risk making her uncomfortable and ruining what could be an amazing time.

Next; know how to tease. Build up is very important to a woman’s arousal, so going in there all fast and sloppy just won’t do. Make your way south slowly with caresses and kisses and linger near her pussy, taking the time to tease her inner thighs and help get her ready. Once her body is really reacting to your touch; hover over her pussy, tickling it with your breath and nuzzling into it and when she starts lifting her pelvis up to you, clearly wanting more; it’s time to go in for the kill. This is where you really get to shine without doing all that much. Don’t worry about fancy technique and the bells and whistles of fingers darting in and out of holes�that’s something you can build up to or experiment with later, because while it’s just not necessary in order to make her cum like never before.

Hold her lips apart and run your tongue lightly up and down her slit a few times; making sure to go high up enough that you graze her clit with each lick. Then, focus your attention on the clit and flick your tongue over it, very gradually picking up speed and increasing pressure. This is one of the few times where repetitive motion is preferred, meaning that once you’ve found a pace that seems to be working, (obvious by the way her thighs have clamped on to your head!) keep at it no matter what! There is a reason why she will yell “Don’t stop!” It is this repetitive flicking/licking that will bring her to orgasm if you keep at it’s no matter the strain on your neck and mouth, because your hard work is sure to be rewarded when she regains consciousness!

by Adrie Santos

For him: Porn for the two of you – How to choose a hot film you’ll both love

Newsflash: many women do enjoy porn!! The notion that women don’t respond to sexual imagery is simply a myth. The reality is that many women are uncomfortable with the idea of admitting to someone that they are turned on by a full-on vagina ramming session because of how they may be perceived, how they were raised, etc. But finding porn that you’ll both enjoy is really not that difficult.

Get the facts. Try talking to her about what types of sex scenes turn her on and listen closely whenever the topic of sex comes up for clues that may help in your hunt for mutually gratifying smut. Knowing your partner and what turns her on and pisses her off is a good start. If you know she’s the jealous type, then choosing a movie with nothing but girl on girl action and making reference to how hot they are is just not gonna fly! This doesn’t mean that you have to rush out and get “Bobby Does The Marines” just to cater to her enjoyment of men in uniforms or anything, just keep both of you in mind when choosing your porn.

Do some research. Reading reviews of films before you head off to the video store can be a great way to know what you’re getting and avoid coming back with a video featuring no more than a record-breaking-gangbang filmed with a camcorder, which I can almost assure you wouldn’t be a good choice! Look for reviews by women to give you an extra edge; these are easily found on any sex toy or adult DVD websites.

Starting off with something mild wouldn’t hurt either. These days finding porn made by women for women is easy thanks to former porn stars like Candida Royalle and Veronica Hart. Don’t let the “for women” label fool you; these movies are still more graphic than typical soft-core porn, the only difference being that instead of a string of facials and blowjobs; these films tend to up the sensuality a notch and include a build-up to the main attraction that others don’t.

Be prepared.
Finally, you can always have a second film as back up and keep it stashed until you see her reaction to the first, softer film, cuz’ who knows; gang bangs and Bukkake may be her thing after all!

by Adrie Santos

For him: Scoring a Threesome. Our top three secrets to land a three-way.

Scoring a threesome is all in the way you approach the idea with your gal. Truth is; most women have fantasized about a menage a trios at one point or another, but very few are likely to admit it in fear of being perceived as slutty – a.k.a. not the marryin’ kind. Then there is also the jealousy factor to contend with once she gets wind of the fact that you want to plow another woman, which is why your approach will have to be a delicate and well phrased one.

First off, a good way to get into the topic is to ask her about her fantasies and listen – really listen as she talks to you. Keep an open mind and avoid a reaction that might make her feel silly and clam up. Once her innermost fantasies are flowing, ask her is she’s ever fantasized about being with another woman and mention that you’ve fantasized about seeing her satisfied by a woman and how there was something very erotic about it. Throw in how you love to see her turned on and you’ll seem totally selfless!

I can’t stress to you how important your wording will be here. For the love of God, please avoid saying things like: “You’re best friends got a hot little ass! Wouldn’t you like to tap that? Let’s have a threesome!” or “I’ve been a little bored with our sex lately…“
Instead try: “I would love to share you with another woman if that turns you on” or “It would be so hot to watch another woman shower you with kisses and satisfy you“.

It may seem corny (and far from the truth) but you have to make her feel as if its all about her and that your desire isn’t so much having two women at once (ha!), but more about giving her maximum pleasure.

Another tip: mentioning names of women you have in mind is a definite no-no, as the last thing you want is to let her see that you’ve been thinking of a specific woman in a sexual way.
The more comfortable you can make her with the idea and convince her that this isn’t only about you, the higher your chances of scoring a threesome. And really, would it be so bad to have a front row seat to some lesbian play? I’m sure joining in will just be a given, so you score either way!

by Adrie Santos

Sex in public – There’s nothing hotter than almost getting caught

Does something about getting nasty in the open air do it for you? Knees quiver and loins ignite at the mere thought of having sex where someone might see? You’re not alone my sweet—sex in public is on the rise! Hurrah!
Whether you’re still in the fantasy stage or quickly becoming a seasoned semi-lewdness pro; this article has something for the exhibitionist in you.

Sex in public is an awesome way to shake things up if you’re getting a little bored in the bedroom. It’s not just about a change of scenery, but there’s also the added element of the adrenaline-pumping-risk of being caught or watched. It even goes even a little deeper than that for some for whom the real rush is derived from feeling as if you’re partner wants you so much that they couldn’t even wait till home to have you. That would undoubtedly make you feel all warm and fuzzy (and hard and wet) inside and who doesn’t perform better with that kind of encouragement?

I will be so bold as to say that EVERYONE can enjoy sex in public, though to varying degrees. I wouldn’t expect a newbie to be comfortable getting/giving a good pounding in a crowded airport (though God bless you if you are so bold!) but there are different locales to suit your experience or comfort level.

Beginners

If you are just acknowledging your desire to take things outside, then the easiest place would be the car. The greatest thing about the car is having the option to park it anywhere at anytime. Venture out to a park late at night where the risk of getting caught is low, but definitely still there. And if you want to kick it up a notch you can always head outside of the car—you do have a whole park to yourself after all. Let me just mention as well that the hood of the car rests at a great height for sex.

Some other great spots for you, your partner(s) and your car: airport parking (the roar of planes flying overhead is tres sexy!) and cemeteries and industrial zone, as these places are all pretty secluded at night.

Intermediate

All of the above in broad day light are great since your chances of getting seen or caught certainly increase in the daytime.

If you’re looking for more risk without being ready for a full-blown audience then you may want to get out a blanket or two and head to the park or beach.
All you really need to do is pick a spot and use the strategically placed blankets to keep the important parts covered and you can easily enjoy sex with people all around without them ever needing to know that you’re doing more than just cuddling.

Some other great spots for you slightly more adventurous: a public washroom for one; since these can be locked without anyone getting suspicious. And one of my personal favorites: in an alley way. Mmm… so dirty! Not quite a high traffic point but gettin’ closer.

Advanced

Now this is where it gets fun and easy seeing as how the world is your oyster! The only need for any caution here is to avoid getting arrested or scarring innocent children for the rest of their lives with a glimpse of your naughty shenanigans!

Now you can head out to a public washroom and enjoy a session in a stall. You won’t quite be in plain view, but everyone can see the 2 sets of feet and hear the moans! Not quite public enough? Try leaving the door open or brazenly fucking on the counter! But be ready to pack up and jet on a moments notice as someone is bound to call security. (Tip: your show is more likely to be appreciated and less likely to be reported in the men’s washroom as opposed to the women’s)

A sauna or hot tub at a gym, hotel or even in your condo can also be great depending on how much of an audience you can stomach. And though the beach has been mentioned above; for the adventurous, opting for a more secluded spot without hiding under a blanket can do the trick. Also, heading into the water for some aqua-aerobics while others wade around should be more than sufficient in getting you the rush you crave.

And finally; you don’t have to be a swinger to enjoy the crowd at a swingers club/party. While the element of getting caught isn’t quite there; the rush of having several people watch you certainly is! You can play till your heart’s content here and no one needs to join in—unless you want them to – but that’s a whole other article…

by Adrie Santos