So there you are, naked (or maybe wrapped up in something delightfully sexy) and romping around with your guy in the sack, on the couch and against the wall. It’s hot. It’s passionate. It’s just great sex.
You’re itching to breathe some nasty phrases into his, but just as some hot language comes to your tongue, you wonder if he’ll freeze in his mid-grind, look at you with horror and go limp with disappointment.
Well, let the words fly because guys just plain old dig a good round of dirty talk more than most things. I mean, check out most porno where the women go to such lengths to talk dirty it often borders on the absurd and ridiculous.
So, without appearing to be the equivalent of some overstuffed porno queen and still give your guy some aural sex, have a read of these guidelines – straight from the male readers of luvloop.com
Start early – The best time to let some dirty talk fly can be just about anytime, including a few nasty words passed discreetly while he’s at work. Keep it light and matter of fact for maximum effect. ‘So we’ll hit a movie and dinner. You know, I feel like a nice hard dessert at my place later, and you’re on the menu’. Seems innocent enough, but this will keep your boy semi-stiff through his financial review that afternoon.
Toss in some tease – To get your guy’s juices flowing, toss in a few words here and there to keep him stretched inside his jeans. When he pays for parking, a casual ‘Nice ass, can I grab it later?’ works wonders, or something a little more direct like ‘Let’s go for the short movie because I’m too wet to wait’ will have him fumbling his popcorn all night.
During the deed – OK, so you’ve finally got your guy wrapped around your legs. This is where the real talkin’ starts! A few pointers here:
Push the limits with some hardcore language (within your comfort zone), so words like cock, pussy and ass are stiffening agents like no other.
Compliments like ‘your hard cock’ and ‘I want your sweet cum’ work really, really well. Guys like to feel confident in the sack, so the more you assure him he’s got what it takes, the better the effect.
Build it up over the session. Instead of ripping off your top and declaring ‘give me your big huge monster dong you king of cum’, start with a few light words and phrases and build it up to his climax.
When you’re in the throes of the hardest part of your sex, avoid the standard ‘Fuck me harder’ (which suggests your guy is not doing it properly) but go for something more sexy, like ‘Fuck me like an animal‘, or ‘Oh yeah, stuff it into my pussy like that!‘ Take a cue from your guy and see what he does when you say certain things.
Plus, guys are all about their orgasm – as almost all porn portrays, the cum shot is a big turn on for men. So, go with it and be the sexy vixen he loves to love – when he’s about to orgasm, tell him ‘C’mon, blast your cum inside me’ or ‘Give me your sweet cum in my mouth… I want it on my tongue… Spray my tits with your cum, baby!’
Guys like power-words and phrases using active, forceful verbs. Here are some keywords our male readers have offered up to add to your vocabulary:
Cram/Stuff/Jam/Shove your cock into my…
Blow/Spray/Dump/Shoot your cum in/on my…
Lick/Lap up my…
Pop your cock into my…
Tongue my…
I love your Hard/Stiff/Big/Nice cock…
Your cum is so Sweet/Yummy/Tasty
So, happy dirty talkin’ and here’s to great aural sex.
by Blake Palmerston
Filed under: Expertise for her | Tagged: Dirty Talk
