Why are so many girls kissing girls these days? Cuz’ it’s hot! So if you’re ready to give in to your curiosity; this article will tell you how to go about getting the girl-on-girl action you crave. And as for curiosity killing the cat-that’s not always the case-sometimes giving in is the only way to satisfy a curious pussy!
Most women at some point or another have thought of what it would be like to be with another woman; it’s natural and very common. For many it won’t ever go beyond a fleeting thought or a fantasy, but for the truly bi-curious you are in a great time to feed those curiosities since girl-on-girl play seems to be hitting the mainstream in books, films and media in general; making it a lot less taboo than it used to be. This also means that women are less afraid to admit that they’re longing to taste another woman; making likeminded hotties much easier to find.
Making your first bi experience as hot as can be will mean going into it wholeheartedly. Be sure that this is what you really want as opposed to going the ‘Girls Gone Wild’ route and doing it while piss drunk or on a dare or in a pathetic attempt to impress a horny boyfriend.
Shaking the myth that this makes you a lesbian is important too. Whether it comes before or after the experience; questioning your orientation is inevitable but you shouldn’t allow it to be a cause of turmoil. If you have always been with men and known that you were straight; the desire to experiment with sex with another woman does not make you gay! It’s time to stop stressing and start exploring some sexy new plains…
Where to Find Lady Lust
Finding your playmate can be a lot easier than you think. The first avenue to consider would be someone that you may already know. While I don’t recommend your best friend, (could get awkward and hurt the friendship) any girl that you may have gotten a little touchy feely with in the past would be great. If you really think about it, many of us have been out with friends and come across another girl that we practically flirted with-even if only in jest, but it could indicate a little bit of chemistry which could make for a great time.
If you can’t think of anyone or prefer the anonymity of someone entirely knew; finding other girls in your situation to choose from couldn’t be easier thanks to personals in alternative newspapers or even on Craigslist. There are also hundreds of websites and phone lines that cater to people looking for casual encounters; including same sex action.
When you sit down to browse the ads you should already have a good idea of what you’re looking for in terms of age, race, etc, but another important choice is whether you would prefer someone “bisexual” who is already experienced or someone who is “bi-curious” like yourself. Both can have their perks, for instance; being with someone experienced means that she can show you the ropes and take the lead, while a newbie offers the comfort of knowing that you’re in the same boat and maybe even a little less pressure.
A bit of friendly advice: don’t bother responding to ads where the woman has indicated that she is a lesbian. There is a huge difference between being a lesbian and being bi and if she is looking for another lesbian-you are NOT what she wants-no matter how hot or how willing you are! A lesbian is clear on her orientation and most likely seeking something more than just a fling to feed your curiosity or get you off, so avoid sticky situations by knowing the difference.
Now That You’ve Found the Lucky Girl
Whether you picked her out of an ad online or up at a party, you need to set some ground rules before you play. Talk to her about your curiosities and fantasies and what you hope to get out of the experience. If you’ve gotten this far, what’s the point in being shy or holding back? Be honest about your insecurities; chances are that she feels or has felt the same way too. Make sure that you also give her the opportunity to express what she wants, because aside from being sexy; it will also give you clues as to how to start when you do finally hook up. This is also the time to mention anything that you’re not comfortable with trying the first time-pussy can be acquired taste and may be a little intimidating for a first time!
Don’t let the fire in your loins blur your judgment and common sense! If this is someone that you’re meeting for the first time, choose a public place; just cuz’ she’s a female doesn’t mean that you should put your safety at risk. And once you are meeting with the intention of getting it on; choose a place that you are both comfortable with.
It won’t matter if you’ve had a hundred conversations or one; the first time you meet at your special place it’s bound to be nerve-wracking. Keep the mood light and ease into things by having a drink, watching a movie – anything that you both enjoy.
Remember that your goal is to explore your bi-side, with the keyword being ‘explore’. Take the time to caress and feel her body and savor every inch. Undress each other slowly and touch her the way that you like to be touched.
No two people are exactly the same but it’s a good place to start. Anything from here on will be a breeze. Just follow your instincts, be respectful and do what comes naturally.
Happy Trails!
by Adrie Santos
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C’mon, Adrie! You are too polite girl. The last time I made it with a hottie, I was drunk and it was a blast! My boyfriend would drool over us watching but I am too chicken to ask him.