So, you’re sitting at work wondering how to give your guy a mind-blowing, lip-biting night of sexy fun plus make it all a fun surprize. If you want to give your guy a total pampering treat finished with a truly “happy ending”, try this massage and hand job technique.
First off, buy a bottle of good massage oil from your local sex shop, or sweet almond oil from a salon. In a pinch, baby oil does the trick.
Then, get your bed or couch ready with an extra sheet so you can massage without thinking about the oil messing things up.
When you’re in the mood and have about half an hour or more, get your guy to lie on his tummy on the sheet. Start with a slow massage around his shoulders using a little oil. Keep in mind the less oil you use, the more friction you get – most guys like a decent massage, so less is better (to start).
Work his back from the top to bottom, taking a new side trips to his arms and hands. Then, start with his legs, from the feet up to his butt. This is where the sensual part starts… flick your fingers inside his thighs and brush his balls with your fingertips. A light grazing is best so it seems like a mistake. Do it a few more times, and then work your hands up the back of his thighs to his butt. Massage his legs and rear, innocently rubbing your fingertips along his balls and upwards (as deeply as you feel comfortable doing) . A few drops of oil in the region will add to his suspicion this is more than just a massage.
By now, your guy is probably hard, so ask him to “flip”. Start at his chest and work his pecs and abdominals, keeping a firm gaze on him and his upper body. Work your way down his legs, again making the accidental graze against his cock or balls.
Once you’re ready, take the oil and drip some right on to his groin. Slowly rub the oils around and use your entire hand on his shaft and balls. Use your palm to stroke down, then sideways and up. Go slowly – remember, it’s not a gearshift!
As he gets harder, use two hands – one stroking his cock and the other either rubbing his abs or balls.
Here’s where the patience pays off – go slowly here, sensuously and enjoy his hardness in your hand. Stroke his entire length, working the base of his cock’s head if he needs more stimulation, or the base if he needs to settle down a bit. You can also hold the base firmly and use your closed hand on the rest. Read his face and see what he likes, or just ask “How’s this?’
You can also try a curve – as if your hand were traveling along a curve to give a tug to the left or right near the top of his cock (this is why some guys use their left or right hand when masturbating since each hand has a natural curve to it’s path).
I suggest lots of lube here since a slippery hand is the very best, and if you’re adventurous enough, massage his skin below his balls or all the way to his anus. In fact, some anal play while you work his penis might just send him over the edge.
Once he’s ready to cum, get into a strong rhythm with your stroke – as if he were pumping you hard during sex. To guys, a hand is just like a vagina so the same motions are what work best. A little dirty talk here sure doesn’t hurt either!
When he comes, remember it will either fly to the right or left, depending. Most guys cum on their left side because of the natural design of their equipment. Don’t point it up to his face, unless he’s into his own cum on his lips.
Once he shoots, handle his cock carefully since it will be really sensitive near the top. Guys love a nice, slow wind down. Take a few minutes to watch his cock go down, and have a small towel handy (or if you really want to reward your guy, bring in a warm wet towel!) and clean him off. Feeling like a porn star? Lick it from his body!
Since he’s already cum once, give him a while and then get him going again. You’ll find his second orgasm takes longer so he’ll be able to pump you long and hard.
Easy tips for an awesome handjob:
1) Tease him with little touches against his cock and balls
2) Work his penis slowly when stroking it, and use two hands.
3) Bask in the afterglow
by Blake Palmerston
Filed under: Expertise for her | Tagged: Handjob
